I have a good number of close friends, but as I binge watch my favorite classics like Friends, How I Met Your Mother, and Sex and the City, I find myself feeling quite lonesome. I think it’s because I don’t have a clique – just a couple of loose groups and individuals scattered around the Bay.
I can’t think of the like 4-6 friends that will without a doubt be my bridesmaids, and it won’t be awkward because they will already be best friends with each other. I don’t have that close-knit family that literally does EVERYTHING together – whether that be partying, eating, exercising, watching movies, traveling, gossiping at cafes…you know, anything and everything.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m definitely thankful for all my friendships from all stages of life. They’ve been there for me when I needed them, and obviously I will be there for them too.
But there’s no clique that I can call my own, and I don’t really know what to do about it.